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Christian Character by
David Hamilton, former pastorBuilding
Christian character involves tasks common to all character building, but also
tasks unique to Christian character building. Among common tasks are: assessment;
goal setting; mastery of meanings; action; and acceptance of consequences. Not
common to both are, among others: the basis on which we build; motivation; role
models; source of strength; and the outworking of specific character traits. These
reflect the uniqueness of Christian character building.
Building
Christian character requires reliance on a basis that is nothing less than the
absolute moral values of God's Word. It requires a willingness to accept honesty
as God sets forth honesty in His Word, believe that the definition will never
change, and refuse to toy with the definition. There is no room for moral relativism
in building Christian character. |
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Building
Christian character is an activity motivated by a desire to pursue holiness, and
to be conformed to God's standards. It chooses the smile of the immortal God over
the smiles of mortals, and works to win that smile. It selects for its role models
great men and women of God, living or dead, rather than leaders in such fields
as education, entertainment, or government.
Serious
study of God's Word is essential in order to seek out the absolute meanings of
various character traits as God reveals them, and to understand them in their
proper context. We need to marinate our minds and hearts in God's truth. We must
employ prayer, also, seeking God's strength for the work of building. We labor
in vain if we labor without God, so we pray fervently. Building
Christian character with these and other tools will result in actions that differ
from those of the non-Christian. The character trait of trustworthiness will be
as absolute, as unconditional, as it is in God's Word. When we vow to love, honor,
and obey until death comes between us, we cannot readily seek divorce. The generosity
Christ described in His story of the Good Samaritan will be the standard for our
own generosity. Tax deductibility will not determine our charitable giving. God
will.
Finally, we
must realize that building Christian character is neither a substitute for the
work of salvation, nor a means of earning salvation. It is an application of God's
moral absolutes to our lives, and it is vital for the true Christian, but it can
do nothing to save us from sin. | |